Put It On Paper

Write down everything you spend money on during the holiday season. Don't think "best case scenario"--be realistic! You know where your self-control ends and what you are truly wanting to sacrifice. Next to each item on your list, estimate how much money will be spent. Total it all up. That is probably the minimum of what you will need.
Time to Pray
God cares about your holiday plans. Lift up your list to Him and ask Him to provide and prune. If you don't have money to spend on the holidays, ask for miraculous provision. Also ask Him to show you what you can do without or show you a realistic substitute.
If you pray for rain, you should get out your umbrella. If you pray for provision, you should be on the look out for coupons, free items from friends, extra money floating in, and all kinds of ways that God provides. He is so good.
Get Rid of the Credit Card
The best way to stay on a budget for the holidays is to use cash only. When the cash is gone, you stop spending. If you have a credit card, cut it up! Or you can freeze it in the back of the freezer. To use it, you will have to thaw it, so you will have to think twice about using a credit card.
When my parents were alive, they would have me Christmas shop for them. I would cash their check and divide the money in envelopes, one envelope for each person. One day I shopped for almost every one on the list at Khol's. I was pulling out money from every envelope and it was a nightmare. Because of the Lord's favor, the sweet lady behind me did not murder me, but from then on I gathered my money before I got in line or paid for each person's stuff separately. But, working with cash helped em to not overspend.
Pinch a Bit
During September and October, I start a Thanksgiving/Christmas envelope in my sock drawer. When I feel like spending a little extra money on fast food or a cute pair of shoes, I stop myself and put the money in the sock drawer. By holiday shopping time, I usually have some extra money tucked away. When finances are really tight, there is little extra money to do this so the amount in the sock drawer changes from year to year. I add this to any money Mike is able to squeeze out of the family budget.
Store and Freeze
When my parents were alive, they would have me Christmas shop for them. I would cash their check and divide the money in envelopes, one envelope for each person. One day I shopped for almost every one on the list at Khol's. I was pulling out money from every envelope and it was a nightmare. Because of the Lord's favor, the sweet lady behind me did not murder me, but from then on I gathered my money before I got in line or paid for each person's stuff separately. But, working with cash helped em to not overspend.
Pinch a Bit
During September and October, I start a Thanksgiving/Christmas envelope in my sock drawer. When I feel like spending a little extra money on fast food or a cute pair of shoes, I stop myself and put the money in the sock drawer. By holiday shopping time, I usually have some extra money tucked away. When finances are really tight, there is little extra money to do this so the amount in the sock drawer changes from year to year. I add this to any money Mike is able to squeeze out of the family budget.
Store and Freeze

Combine Families for Holiday Feasts
Two families can split the cost of a holiday feast to save money. If you serve the holiday feast, have everyone pitch in and bring 2-3 dishes. We share Christmas dinner with another family every year. Laura and I sit down and make a menu. We divide responsibilities between the two of us, trying to make the financial and preparation investment as even as possible.
Pick Up Sale Items
When something goes on sale during the late summer or early fall that would make a good Christmas gift, I pick it up and store it. You better hide it if you have a gift peeker in the house.
One year, long scarves were in and I found an amazing clearance sale on lovely scarves at Bealls. I picked up one for each lady in my family, my closest friends, and my sister. That year everyone got beautiful, expensive scarves that I paid very little for.
Stocking Stuffers
Following my mother's example, our stockings are filled with practical items: dental floss, toothbrush, socks, new make-up, and lots of chocolate. Again, I look for sales during the summer, and fall months, picking up things as I go. I also put practical items in the stockings that will save me money later on in the year.
Hair elastic bands are used up at a rapid rate with all the girls in the house with long hair, so I make sure to give each daughter a package in their stocking.
Give It Away
You can't out-give God!. Be generous as you celebrate the holidays. Continue to tithe and give offerings to God's work. After all, it's His birthday. Look for opportunities to give and share with others who have less.
May you spend with wisdom this holiday season and stay on your budget!
For the Joy Set Before Us!
Merey
(Meredith Ludwig Curtis)